We are a 56-year old couple.  We met an online bull recently and exchanged pics/info.  My wife seems to be getting closer and closer to him - doing exactly as he orders her to do.  They chat on Kik and on Facebook so I am left out of the conversation.  He recently joined this site, too.  I am concerned that he will take her away from me.  She has shared more and more pics with him - pics that I am concerned could be used to control her even more.  But the thought of her being controlled by another man is a huge turn-on for me.  I am worried that if he posts those pics here we will be publicly recognized - but he is in control of that now as I will submit and agree to anything he chooses to post as it would be a huge turn-on for me.